In the process of growing There is pain Not the kind that comes with falling But the kind that comes with Letting a little part of yourself die Sealing and sending a letter That you can’t have back You wrote it, yet you cannot claim it Once it leaves and moves on Like you, too, left and moved on In the process of growing I walk two lives The one that I lived, a life that I loved And the one that I live, the one that I love Yet neither are mine forever Not unlike people, not unlike letters You meet them, write them, but They too must leave, move and die Life in the context of death And pain in the process of growing